Meeting a Guy for Coffee

I met a guy last night for coffee. This wasn't our first time meeting. But come on folks. Where's the chivalry? Is it dead? Okay so he held the door open for me. But one time he almost forgot. Then I paid for my hot chocolate myself. Come on!!! I don't get it. Does a guy think he's impressing a girl by letting her pay for herself? Some men are just clueless. And that was the number one deal breaker for the guy last night. I know I know that if he had other great qualities I might overlook it - maybe he's trainable. But some things a man should already know.

And then there's this chemistry thing that's so important. You can't manufacture it. It's either there or it isn't. As we walked on the sidewalk, this guy was like several steps in front of me. Sorry, but I like a guy who wants to walk with me. Either he's not used to walking with women or I don't even know. There's no excuse for that one in my book.

Ahh dates of these sort - just help me along on this journey of self discovery and self-fulfillment. There we go again - always pondering the deep stuff. I could just say I wasn't attracted to him. But I have to super analyze it.

Also, the conversation didn't flow. I like a guy who's totally into me. And why shouldn't I? It's hard once you've had a taste of what you're really supposed to be treated like - to tolerate anything less. I'm supposed to be treated like a princess. You should be honored to have some of my time. But so many guys are clueless. Where are you prince? My prince? What do you look like? I'm waiting...